37 things that I wish my younger self knew
I'm thrilled to celebrate my 37th birthday today! It's a special day that allows me to reflect on my life so far and the experiences that have shaped me into the person I am today. As I look back on the past 37 years, I'm grateful for all the lessons I've learned, the challenges I've overcome, and the achievements I've made. I'm excited about the future and the opportunities it holds, and I'm determined to make the most of the time I have left. I know that life can be unpredictable, but I'm ready to face it head-on with a positive outlook and a resilient spirit. So here's to another year of growth, adventure, and fulfillment!
Success is subjective! Figure out what success means to you and go for it - seriously. You don’t need to climb a ladder or make 6 figures to be successful. Success could be so many other things.
You are so much more capable than you think.
You are NOT defined by your mistakes, but by how you learn from them.
Always be true to yourself. Don't compromise your values or beliefs for anyone.
The people you surround yourself with can greatly influence your life. Choose wisely.
Don't take things personally. Not everything is about you. - As an only child, this one was hard
Invest your time with loved ones and cherish your relationships. We have limited time.
Your health is your wealth. You only have one body so take care of it and brush your teeth.
Don't compare yourself to others. Everyone has their own weird journey that no one really is prepared for and we’re all just kind of winging it until it works and if it doesn’t we pivot (like Ross on Friends)
Actually advocate for causes and issues that are important to you.
Learn to let go of things that no longer serve you. This includes people, habits, and possessions.
You don't have to have everything figured out at ANY age. Who sets the rules? You do!
Money can't buy happiness. Pursue fulfillment instead.
Donate that money that doesn’t buy you happiness to a nonprofit that supports the causes and issues that are important to you.
You don't have to be perfect. Embrace your flaws and imperfections - that’s what makes you, YOU! You are the only you and that’s pretty incredible.
Life is too short to hold grudges. You don’t need to forgive but don’t let them rule your mind.
Invest in yourself. Learn new skills and never stop growing.
Time is precious. Time is the most valuable commodity.
Set your boundaries and stick to them. Boundaries are self care!
Step outside your comfort zone. Do the thing that you’ve always wanted to. No one else’s opinion matters.
Failure is not the opposite of success. It’s a of the part of the journey.
ASK FOR HELP! It’s easy. Let’s practice.. you say “Hi, I need help.” how’d that feel? Weird? Try again until it feels normal and easy.
Don't let fear hold you back. Remember #2? Go read that.
The past is gone and cannot be undone no matter what sci-fi movies say. Though if you’re reading this and time travel is real just come get me. Anyways, until then Focus on the now and the future. It’s more fun!
You can't please everyone. Accept that as early on as you possibly can. Take that energy and focus on pleasing yourself.
Be kind to yourself. Treat yourself with the same kindness and compassion you give to others.
Learn about history and the world around you to gain a deeper understanding of the present.
Get educated, again. Read a diverse range of books, watch documentaries or listen to podcasts to learn about different topics.
Say no. Your time, energy and life are valuable. Saying no might feel weird but
You don’t need to tell everyone about your opinions. Be mindful of the words you speak. They can have a powerful impact on others.
Take time for self-reflection and introspection to develop self-awareness. You’ll be a better human for taking this time for yourself.
Focus on solutions, not problems. It’s easy to get stuck in the problems but he solutions are way more important.
Always be true to yourself, even if it means going against the norm. Normal is boring! There is so much out there to explore and enjoy.
Never stop learning. Don't be afraid to ask questions and unlearn bad information and habits.
LISTEN - Sometimes the best thing you can do is shut up and simply listen.
Give back to others. It's a fulfilling way to make a positive impact.
Accept that change is a part of life. Embrace it and adapt as necessary. You never know what will happen in 5 years even if you plan things down to the T.
Love yourself. You are worthy of love and respect especially from yourself. Say it with me “I LOVE myself. I love my flaws, my body, my mind….”